hurtful lies do of coz hurt u lah like wat the subject means...
but den.. give opportunity for tt person to explain when i have
remain calm first... usually i keep quiet and dun speak.. for like
5mins den will ask him why he done it.. i dunno why but like even
unforgiven things... i also will forgive in the end.. if really
angry will be for a day only.. juz ignore me i will cool off.. but
if minor things will be fine like after 15mins of walking ard
alone.. will call him back one... maybe too soft hearted... and tts
why i had not much enemies or rather none at all.. 
