Originally posted by huoyun:
can't say sex nowadays is all initiated
by the guys, I do know there are some 'spontaneous' gals out there.
It's a 2sided thingy now due to the more liberal thinking that
youngsters have. so can't say having sex means showing disrespect
for the gal lor.
If a couple truly love each other, then it's making love, and that
is so much different cuz of the emotional feelings for each other
being entwined into the intercourse. Every sigh, moan, touch, kiss
makes the experience so beautiful 
Sometimes the breakup is due to not enough love -- care, concern,
commitment, support for each other -- being shown for each other so
the sex becomes quite meaningless. End up when the guy leaves the
gal, it looks like he is the panda -- "eats [b]shoots and
leaves"
But have to say lah, it's in a relationship that you learn and grow
lor. Many a time, you realise what you really want emotioanlly
after going into in a relationship.
Sometimes during the course of the relationship, guys find that
after sex, their "ultimate goal" is reached, so they "move on". Of
course, I've to be fair to all the guys (and myself
:mrgreen
.. can't say it's true for all guys. This
is what I think lah
So take ur time, observe carefully lor, dun "nao chu ren ming"
/bows[/b]
nowadays... sex initiated by most gals are those who are already
exposed to touchings like pettings, or even sex itself... the
virgins seldom does it lah though there is minority of them doing
so (maybe? *shrugz*)
i agree wif u on the feelings part, as like i mentioned the period
of time a coupel stays together do NOT depend solely on the sex
part, whereby the men has got enuff of her and wanna move on wif
another gal... tts like sleeping ard lah in short... flings... no
strings attached. But the guys usually dun tell the gals no string
attached n they carry on giving the gals false hope and so the gals
will tend to think that after having sex the r/s will be damaged to
some extend. In a r/s, i think the most impt is trust and without
it, many other components do not come into the r/s so rem its not
abt sex den that had damaged the r/s.
