Me and my best friend

girlie SG

I just slept with my best friend.
What should I do?
I have always liked him, but he has a girlfriend liao.
Does he like me or just want the sex?

browniebaobao SG

Only he knows...how could you have slept with your fren?! Surprised

girlie SG

We were at a resort in Bali with some other friends.
One day he went out to buy food, so we ask him to buy back for us. When he got back, he came over to my room to pass me the food. So we just ate in my room. After eating felt lazy so sleep lor. It is not the first time we share the same bed. I knew him since primary school.

As we talk in bed he moved closer and closer then started to caress me. I dunno wat came over me and I let him continue.
Soon our clothes are off and too late liao.

I do not now how to behave around him now. Sad
If he likes me, I am sad to hurt the GF.
If he doesn't like me, then I will be hurt.

browniebaobao SG

Oh..that's bad...Silly girl, next time dun give in so easily..
He took the initiative and you let him continue...errr..both are responsible..Ever come across your mind that this might cause you to lose him as a fren too? I believe you are very young...better have a nice talk with him before anything bad happens...get it? Hopefully, there will not be a 'new life'...Bless you..

Nitric SG

Most of the times it will be akward running into ur fren…..also duno wat to say…unless there a consensus btw both that it jus a fling & nothing else…..maybe it is lust that prompted him to advance towards u on that day…who knows…...Only he know

thhong22 SG

i almost slept with my good fran once too....
he was reali upset tat time when he break off with his gf...
we always talk alot of personal stuff to each other... so as usual, i was there to talk to him....
4get how we end up in bed.... nothing happen lah.... cos i rejected..... quite long liao.... Confused Embarassed
hmm... anyway we r still good frans now.... we nv mention the thing again or feel awkward Cing each other.... things were juz normal....
though he told me he used to like me, but he nv chase me bcos his best fran was chasing me tat time.... sound rather funny when i 1st heard tat.... Mr. Green

kopiosatu SG

so happening

sgboy SG

Have he called you since that happen?

You should call him out and ask him.

shandower SG

Play with fire and you are sure to get burned mmmmkay?

Master -_- SG

*sigh*

another classic case

shandower SG

Play with fire and you are sure to get burned mmmmkay?

Tutu Kueh SG

Rolling Eyes

kohanson SG

if his gf is going to find out this, i think his gf will most probably get very hurt and might break off with him.

thhong22 SG

but girlie is more sad don u think so??? Rolling Eyes
wat if she lost a best fran due to this incident???
cannot blame her mah.... she's like a victim too.... shld blame the guy for having no self-control n no loyalty n faithfulness since he was attached.... Confused

reallieRAW SG

Shocked shocked at your answer Shocked
Wanna know mine?
Poor the GF, coz after all, she's INNOCENT.
Shit the GUY, coz dun think he exercised his control at all.
Nothing to say to Girlie, coz what's done has been done. You've liked your friend all along i guess? You've allowed to go on when he initiated.
But the crucial point here will be to make sure you are safe if both of you had unprotected sex. Then make sure the GUY gives you a satifactory answer to both YOU & his GF.

thhong22 SG

shock? y shock??? Rolling Eyes
i find girlie rather pitiful cos, the guy make use of girlie's liking for him n he takes advantage of it....

Qoo`~` SG

last time me also nearly.. nearly slept with my one of good friends before…. but i scare that he will go and bad-month abt me.. say i lose or whatever, then in the end i refuse…. but that time i not really attached yet…

larren SG

It is time 2 face it man.....if your fren is trying 2 be funny leave him alone & forget abt him. & instead speak up for your innocence + your own defence. This is life hv 2 sometimes go through pains.

reallieRAW SG

I'd describe the GF as pitiful, rather than erm....(Girlie)I'm sorry, I know that it's your thread & you are seeking help but self-help & self-realization are equally impt Neutral

I'm sure the situation can be Different, if Girlie is able to make her decision at the 'Point of No Return'. Then we wont be having this thread at all Neutral

davewill SG

Hiaz...another tear-jerker. But I shld say girlie is contradicting herself, she shld know the consequences once commited but on the other hand she's in her wits end.
This is something we muz keep in mind, never intrude ppl relation dispute.
But girlie, once done cannot be undone, since already commited tell urself if u really love him go for it. Love is rather cruel n selfish...or shld I say destiny is in ur own hand.

Go Go Go
Davewill