Woman on Top 1. - The male lies on his back while his partner
straddles his torso. She controls the rhythm and depth of
penetration. He lies flat with movement restricted somewhat by her
weight and his lack of leverage. Some women prefer to lay forward
so she may kiss her mate, while others choose to sit up straight.
Regardless of which you prefer, an interesting idea is to just rock
back and forth or in a circular motion while resting on your
partnerâs body. There is more clitoral stimulation this way, and
it also has the advantage of the feeling of deep penetration, which
some women really like. Another great advantage is that this motion
is less stimulating for a man, and he can often last longer this
way.
Woman On Top 2. - Open and Closed The man lies on his back with his
legs spread apart. She straddles his torso and allows him to enter
her normally. She then lies on top of him closing her thighs.
Because her thighs are closed, more pressure is placed on the penis
which can be pleasurable to both men and women. The sensations are
intense and this position will normally bring most men to orgasm
quite quickly. Of course he is not the only one being
pleased.
Woman On Top 3. - About face This position requires that the woman
sit with her back to him. The male lies on the bed and the female
straddles his torso, kneeling on either side of him. From this
position she can put her hands on his knees, giving her the
leverage to lift off. This position forces the penis into an
uncommon angle, which many women find extremely exciting. If she
wants to give him additional stimulation during this position she
can reach down with one of her hands and massage his balls. Gentle
pulling or massaging is often very desirable for men.
Woman On Top 4. - The Ultimate Embrace This position is not simple
sex, itâs true lovemaking in the complete sense of the word.
Begin with the female on top position. The woman should sit up
straight and get comfortable. Now, the man sits up with her,
holding her in his arms and she holding him. Now the important
part: do nothing. Donât move, just look at each other, hold each
other or talk lovingly to one another. Kiss for a while, laugh,
close your eyes. For the next while, just enjoy the feeling of
ultimate closeness and tenderness. Those deeply in love will relish
this one the most.
Rear Entry Position 1. -Also known by some as "doggy style" the
rear entry position is fairly easy to assume. The woman gets either
on her hands and knees or lays stomach first on the bed with her
lover behind her. He is on his knees or sometimes his feet, and
develops leverage by grasping on to her hips. Depending on
preference the man's legs can be inside of the women's legs or
outside of them. Couples may wish to have the woman's legs closer
together because it creates more friction between the penis and
vagina.
In this position a man has a great deal of freedom for thrusting.
Her movement is somewhat restricted but this can be easy modified
with an ottoman or low bed. The woman can then rest the upper half
of her body on a supporting structure. This in turn gives her more
freedom to move her hips and pelvis. The rear entry position offers
the couple a chance at experiencing new sensations because the
angle of entry is different while deep thrusting is made much
easier. All these factors contribute to a particularly intense
experience if you are with the right partner. Most men find that it
is difficult to prolong their orgasm while in this position. The
stimulation is often too intense or overwhelming. Consequently the
couple may wish to save the rear entry position as a way to end
their lovemaking session.
Rear Entry 2. - Forward for Pleasure While the man lies on his back
on the bed, the female approaches him and straddles his hips with
her back to him. The true joy comes when she leans forward as far
as she can. Some women may want to grab onto their partner's legs
and pull themselves down to the bed. In so doing she drastically
alters the angle of penetration. Some couples may find that it is
uncomfortable until they adjust the angle of her hips a little.
Once this adjustment has taken place she will find sensations
unlike any other. She can then rock back and forth with his legs
for support or he may wish to support her hips with his arms to
assist her movement.
Although it is very pleasurable this position provides little
clitoral stimulation. Consequently women who enjoy direct clitoral
stimulation may not enjoy this position as much as their
partner.
Rear Entry 3. - The Chair Revisited. That wonderful recliner can be
used for another very satisfying, very relaxing sexual position.
This one is particularly great for those men who have limited
mobility due to accident or illness. The male just sits comfortably
upright in a chair while the woman sits down on his lap as if she
was using the chair as well. Her back is pressed to his chest. The
onus is on the female to provide all the movement in this position
but this movement is extremely easy. With the support of her arms
the female can use her legs to move rapidly or slowly.
If a chair is not convenient for you then you may wish to try a
similar position on your bed. The male kneels down with his
buttocks on his ankles. The female is directly in front of him
allowing themselves to be elegantly joined. There is not a great
deal of movement available to the couple but this position is very
sensual and is recommended for afterplay. When the couple is
sitting joined, the male can fondle her breasts or even massage her
back. Often it is very satisfying just to sit and hold her with
soft music in the background. From this position you both can move
in unison and lay down on your sides allowing greater comfort for
both partners. Fucking does not have to revolve around thrusting;
it can be slow, intimate and tender.
Rear Entry 4. - Face down The female lies face down on the bed with
her legs spread apart. The male then straddles the female's thighs
from behind. To enter easily it is useful to place a pillow
underneath her abdomen to shift the angle of her hips. Also she can
place a pillow beneath her head for added comfort. Most men will
find that establishing a rhythm with this position is quite
difficult. The problem is that the penis has a tendency to slip out
of the vagina forcing the couple to restart their lovemaking. Take
your time and start with slow shallow thrusts until you get your
rhythm.
Rear Entry 5. - Face Up The male lies on his back on the bed while
the woman lays on him with her back pressed against his chest. For
the men who can support her weight comfortably this position is a
delight. It allows the man easy access to the clitoris which can be
massaged during the act. This position is excellent for pregnant
couples because it puts no stress on the front part of a womanâs
body. Spicing up this position is quite easy. Massage oils can be
applied by the male to the female's breasts, shoulders and stomach.
Some oils will heat up when they are applied which can add extra
stimulation to the experience. If you are using condoms make sure
that no oil comes into contact with the condom that is in use.
Other interesting ideas to add to this position may be a vibrator.
She can hold a powerful vibrator near her clitoris which vibrates
the vagina as well. Both male and female will experience the
stimulation.
Rear Entry 6. - Spoons Both partners face the same direction and
lay on their sides, man behind woman. The man may have to slightly
angle his body so that entry is more easy. Although thrusting and
movement is inhibited in this position, it is very close and
intimate and may be a perfect way to begin lovemaking.
Missionary Position 1. - The Missionary has often been thought of
as un-adventurous and amateurish. Nothing could be farther from the
truth! The female lies on her back with her legs spread apart. The
male then lowers himself on top of the female with his arms
supporting his weight. From this position the male has the freedom
to thrust or make circular movements with his thighs. If he lowers
himself closer to her and rests some of his weight on top of her
body, his pubic bone may be able to provide gentle clitoral
stimulation. The female can thrust her middle body towards the man
using the support of her legs, or grasp the man from behind
controlling somewhat his thrusting movements.
Missionary Position 2. - Lifting Legs The woman can lift and bend
her legs slightly with her feet flat on the mattress. Many women
find this position more comfortable than the traditional missionary
position. It allows for greater access to the vagina, which means
that both partners will enjoy more intense stimulation. This
position can be further enhanced if the woman can put her feet on
her partner's buttocks. Adding a particularly delightful feel for
the female as the male's pubic bone gently rubs against her
clitoris.
Missionary Position 3. - Locking Legs The woman raises her legs
higher and locks them around her partner. The higher she can raise
her legs, the deeper the penetration because access to the vagina
is easier. If she has the flexibility to lock her legs around her
partner then she can contribute to his leverage by squeezing him
close to her or just hold him with her thighs. Many men find that
the feel of their partner's legs around them to be a real turn on.
One significant drawback of this position is that some men find it
results in hurried orgasms. For this reason we might suggest that
you leave this position towards the end of your lovemaking.
Missionary Position 4. - Over the Shoulders The woman places her
legs on her partner's shoulders, on both sides of his head. From
this position lovers can attain the deepest possible penetration.
Be aware that this position can allow too deep a penetration,
causing irritation for the woman. The man should always take his
cues from his partner and move slowly. The further back her legs
are the deeper the possible penetration.
Missionary Position 5. - Kneeling Male This is not a position
designed for speedy movements or rapid lovemaking, but rather a
slow and intimate encounter. The female lies on her back on the bed
with the male kneeling and sitting on his ankles between her
thighs. From this position he grabs her thighs and brings her to
him. Her bottom and lower back are elevated while her ankles or
lower legs rest on his shoulders. To add to her comfort you can
place a pillow under her lower back and a couple under her head.
There can still be some muscle strain experienced by the woman so
this position can not be held for a prolonged period. The female
can massage her clitoris manually in this position, or her partner
can apply pressure with his thumb, since her weight is supported by
her partner and the bed. The man can view the penetration easily
which for many is an exciting sight. It also allows the man to
deliver a sensual massage of his partnerâs stomach, breasts and
arms.
Missionary Position 6. - Using your Bed The female lies on the bed
with her legs draped over the edge and her feet resting on the
floor. The male then kneels on the floor between her thighs. The
success of this position depends heavily on the elevation of the
bed, which for some is not quite at the height required. One of the
beautiful things about this position is the range of movement
possible for both partners. A woman has more control over movement
as she can press herself against him to add to the penetration or
rotate her hips for interesting stimulation. The male also has an
unparalleled amount of leverage and freedom of movement.
Missionary Position 7. - Legs get Together Most women enjoy the
missionary position with legs apart. This is not necessary and many
couples prefer positions where the woman can keep her legs closed.
Added stimulation and unique sensations are usually what result.
When her legs are closed, a womanâs vagina tightens around her
partnerâs penis giving more intense stimulation to both partners.
This position also forces the man to enter from a sharper angle
towards the clitoris adding more stimulation for the woman. The man
in this position may also close his legs, placing all his weight on
his partner. Careful here, some women appreciate this feeling,
others are burdened by it!
Missionary Position 8. - Tantric Essences This is an enjoyable and
very special position often found in Tantric literature. In this
position the woman lies on her back on the bed. Her partner kneels
sitting on his ankles close to her buttocks. From here he hoists
both of her legs onto one of his shoulders. A little bit of
guidance from his partner and you are both in a deliciously unique
position. This one is not for those who have problems with
flexibility. You will both be surprised at the unique angle of
penetration which many women find delightful. The penis massages
the side wall of the vagina which does not get the same attention
with other positions. If the female wants to try massaging the
opposite wall of the vagina then all you must do move her legs to
the other shoulder. The movement in this position is mostly up to
the male. Some men may find it difficult to thrust with both legs
on their shoulders but with time it becomes easier. Allow yourself
some time to become accustomed to this position because it is a
tricky one to master.
Missionary Position 9. Â T Position The female partner lies on her
back. The man, laying perpendicular (making a âtâ) straddles
the womanâs leg farthest from him. For example, if the man lays
on the left side of the woman, he straddles her right leg. The
other leg lays atop the man. This position exposes the clitoris for
stimulation, which either partner can do. Slowly rocking back and
forth, thrusting the penis gently in and out.
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