Case study 1) A ger was teased by her peers.
"woah, u so old liao, stil haven had sex b4 ah? so poor thing. u
miss out all the excitment" joked her peers. Btw, the ger was only
16yr old. So the ger replied wif a smile." I can be like YOU all
ANY time, but YOU all can NEVER be like me! " 
After hearing that, her ger frens stopped teasing
her and went away stumped.
Lesson #1: Dun be peer pressured by pple ard u. Yes, we r living in
the X, Y, E or probably the F generation. But we still have 1 life,
2 eyes, 1 nose, 1 mouth. Certain things never changed regardless of
wad generation u r in. 
Case study 2) A ger fren of mine went to Aust, for
further studies. Before she left, she discussed that she wld like
her bf, hubby to be experienced. I ask her why. " So that we wun
garagabo ma..." She replied. " more experiences, more shiok"
2 yrs after she graduated , she came bk Sg, i remembered her
'requirements' and ask her the requirement again. She paused and
thought thru, then she said:" after being to Aust. i wld prefer her
hubby to be v, so tat they can garagabo together" 
Lesson #2: As the generation proceeds, the world will get more and
more jialat. Virgins in future will be a very valuable virture in
humanity.
Case study 3) My fren was driving me for supper.
We started discussing abt virginity and sex. He said," what if the
ger herself willingly offer and she dun even love her body?" He
believed in sex as an expression of love. (No doubt abt tat) But he
thinks tat PMS (Pre Marital sex) is nuthing if both r in 'love'. I
just ask him 1 sentence " If YOU allow your daughter in future to
do wad you r doing to your gf now, i have nothing to say."
He stopped his car, gazed blindly into the
windscreen. He ended wif this statement:" You got me there."
Pple haf double standard, they wan to ride other gers, but they dun
wan their own daughters to be ridden without commitment of
marriage.
Lesson #3: Do unto others wad you wan others to do unto YOUR
daughter.
Case study 4) A couple was about to get married,
they were very happy. Everything was right. The guy was handsome
and successful in life, the ger was pretty and well mannered. The
lightings, decorations,etc were just rightly lit and placed. They
were abt to take the vow. Minutes before they took the vow, the ger
confessed to the guy she is a virgin and she said this:" I belift
that virginity is the best present a wife can ever present to her
hubby" . The guy wept after hearing this. He felt so guilty and
short changing his wife as he has bed numerous ex gfs ,tat he
converted to christianity shortly after his marriage and loved his
wife immensely.
Lesson #4: Dun do things for short term pleasures and miss out the
long term pleasures and live in guilt of short changing the other
party.
To those who r still v, keep it up and leave the most valuable
present to your spouse. They WILL appreciate it. 
trust
me!
But u may say, i'm not a v nw, so it does not matter if i do it
again. Since i'm an 'open-up' present. No need to be holy la...
Well, think again, if u fail ur test, does tat mean tat it makes no
difference if u fail again? 
or wld u study doubly hard to make up for it in
ur final exams and get a pass if not an A?
To those who r not v, repent and leave sex for your life partner
who will share life wif u. It takes greater courage for pple to
reject PMS and ur partner WILL respect you for that. 
Sex is an act of physical intimacy to cement relationship in
marriages. If u wan it now, then get married! you will get to reap the fullness of sexual act wif
your spouse if u keep sex after marriage. Its like u have been
watiing for so long and ur excitement reached the highest and u
*roarrrr* rip off ur wife on the 1st nite of marriage. U 1st time,
she oso 1st time. Now, which is more exciting? PMS or SAM(sex after
marriage)? 
