Unity SG Would u offer shelter to a fellow pedestrian with your unbrella while say walking along a path or waiting for the green light if the other party is naked to the downpour? I was thinking if ask the other person might think 'What the.. If dun ask the other person might think 'So selffish' ....
BufPuf SG think will met with few good-hearted people who offer to me before..so think i will do the same if i met with the same...
Peppermint SG if the person is along i will, without even asking, done it a couple of times, if there are a lot of people with no brollys, i will try to help the aged and the needy like mothers with children or pregenant ladies
jOhO SG it's like that.. damned if u do, damned if u don't. anyway i'm not an umbrella carrier, so no probs there... and since i'm a guy i dun think a girl would offer me hers to share. if she did well i'm not that stuck up and manly, i'd get under the umbrella! why the f not?? hehehe
Peppermint SG actually i find it so much easier to offer to guys then gals, offer to gals becasue of the close proximity, sometimes they think that i am up to no good
Unity SG Cos I was picturing myself at the counter drinking and asking the stranger next to mi this q.
reallieRAW SG I WILL & I ever DID tt . At tt moment, I was trying to put myself in the drenched person's shoe & thought tt I wld appreciate if some kind souls can offer me 'temporary shelter'
lurker SG this kind of question is like "would you give up your seat on a bus?" for me it will depend on who that person is lor, sometimes you kena scolded instead, but sometimes you know you are doing the right thing when you see the grateful look on the person's face the strong should help the weak, those who have help those who don't. that's civilisation.
Qoo`~` SG i think maybe if a girl to offer would be easier.. can offer to guy or gal... for me, i have ever done that before lor.. but then the guy try to be gung ho.. say he don't need.. so i nothing to say...in the end, i feel so paiseh.. but then there is another incident where a guy tried to offer me, so i ok lor... then i think he tried to 'take advantage' of me... put his hands on my shoulder and ask me to stand closer and tried to strike a conversation trying to know me blah blah... so if a guy would to offer me..i think i would hesitate for a while lor...
FireIce SG i always dun bring umbrella go out one... a few times some "stranger" did share his/her umbrella with me lah......such as crossing over to the bus-stop...or going in the same direction... i have no chance to do this to other ppl cos i dun carry umbrella!.....duH~
Droicut SG What’s the point… many times i offered people things and many time i tio some bad remarks… haoren mei hao bao
