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Qoo`~` SG

hey ppl,
i think i have lost interest in sex... *sigh* how hur??
recently me and my bf tried to make love but no feeling leh... not that we dun love each other anymore.. just that got no feeling to make love lor..
then i also dunno how to reject him... but i just told him to lenghtening the foreplay lor.. but i think it doesn't seem to help leh..dunno whether he understand or not Sad

tjm07 SG

Heard before this guy when wanna make love just give his gf a book or something to read then do it maybe also cos gf not interest... maybe u can try too keke... Mr. Green

angrynor SG

har...
like tat also can har?

Ah^ken SG

Aiyo making luv must be mutual, if one of u lost interset, i tink it will be quite boring to haf sex liao... Shocked

Devil1976 SG

Just tell him straight that you've got no mood lor...? And if this matter persist, perhaps you would like to monitor what's going wrong...?

Xiao Long Nu SG

/me bring u go see mountain

shirurinu SG

i think this is the time you can communicate with you bf openly. Is it because there is something between the 2 of you that make you psychologicallly lost interest in sex...? Or something happens that change your perception about sex subconsciously? You have to know why.... do some little soul searching quietly. Sometimes, too much sex will make you lose interest too.
I ever read in CLEO that if the gal feels that she is being treated like a sex machine, she will lose interest in sex... ARe you in this trouble too?
And remember to chose the tone and the correct vocab.. otherwise.. you will be hurting his ego...
You know.. guys are especially sensitive about their ego.. in sex issuess.. RIGHT GUYS? =P

Si|verGer SG

thin u in ur low peak time juz relax urself & tell him u need to rest awhile lor Mr. Green

Qoo`~` SG

hur... read book also can meh?? later i concentrate on the story how?? hhaha... nber heard of it... but will still try anyway...

the thing is that i dunno how to tell him leh... i scare hurt his ego lor.. but got one time i reject him and keep he keep asking y lor.. but i say nothing then he also quite ok with it...

maybe we have it too often until no meaning liao???

jOhO SG

so i guess he’s not turning u on, or u just have no mood to have sex altogether? i guess communication is the key… let him know see wat he says… sometimes it’s very nice to just cuddle up too!

Devil1976 SG

Shocked Question

xavier1979 SG

Sex drive going down among Singaporeans.

Must be the food we are having here. Or the terrible weather.

Qoo`~` SG

ya maybe.. but when we foreplaying that time, i still alright... just that when he wants to enter liao... then the feeling bo liao.. and gets very dry lor... dunno leh.. quite embarrase to describe also... Embarassed

jOhO SG

ehhehe.. it's ok i guess this is for u and him to talk about no need to post details here if u're not comfortable.

i can post details on wat might turn u on but then also haiz... abit too "public" to post explicit details here... Twisted Evil Embarassed

GIJOE SG

ask your bf to go learn body massage... it might help... cause massaging is so sensual n smoothing... maybe it will trigger u. Always do that... go find a nice body massage oil n get your bf to do it for u.. it does work for me.. i hope it helps.. Wink Laughing

TaDA SG

Or there are drugs that when you have it, makes you horny like hell
Can discuss with your bf about getting it? Or maybe drink wine
and foreplay at the same time? Liquor can get girls to loosen up
right? They feel more comfortable with the sex with mood and setting too... Dunno how you are going to tell your bf though??
Talk dirty?? I dont know man, try everything!!!

yErN SG

hmm...have u guys been together for a long time? u noe..i have heard of so many cases whereby when the couple have been together for a long time..it just becomes sort of a mundane routine...and well..gets boring ultimately..not like the initial stage..where things are more exciting and thrilling... Smile well.. maybe u guys could try to discuss wat could be done to rectify the situation?maybe more foreplay..like wat u said could be good.. Very Happy or...hehe...try to be more adventurous lahh...keke..so many positions for u guys to try out. =P

BattleMe SG

yo Qoo`~`
u should read the book about SM sex.
how and why it was brought into existence.....
cos some people were sick of having sex..or sex cant give'em orgasm........so ppl started playing SM instead.....so those ppl need SM to make'em high....and get orgasm.

yErN SG

paiseh ahh..hehe..but wat does sm mean? Razz abit blur blur lah. hehe. =PPP

tsubi SG

ya i think SM is a very fresh idea. sex alone could not satisfy some ppl after sometimes… or maybe try incest or pedophiles might help too. juz try it and you will realize the unreachable horizon…high up….