Well, maybe this answer may let u guys gain some insights
More often than not, or rather ever since Ancient times, Men r
'known' to have the upper hand in sexual r/ships until now. Why so?
Chastity. Women tend to be at the losing end when sex is involved
in a r/ship, highly running the risk of getting pregnant even if
with protection.
Then again, looking at the posted topics in the forum, though
'some' insists on Virgins to be GFs.....the rest is with a
'fine with it' attitude
which tells us tt the society is slowly accepting Women to lose
their Chastity even bfe Marriages. It's Common now.
This trend, no doubt is a pressure exerted on the
Women tt they r placing less attention/importance to Chastity. They
r 'forced to', in a way, to be
'Open-minded' in seeing Chastity.
It's the Social Ideology tt's been
imposed on the Women tt they 'have to' be 'open-minded' in order to
receive Love. (dun flame me ah, i
dun mean to say tt Women dun receive Love unless they relent to
sexual r/ships - tt's diff issue) To explain & highlight my pt, juz compare, in the
past, it was 'nan nu shou shou bu qing'....shld
any Men be touching the Women, he had to marry her. However,
if Today, there r still Women insisting the Men to marry them.....i
bet it muz be stressful to u Men coz u may find it juz
NORMAL & at the same time,
INEVITABLE tt physical contact can be avoided
totally....tt's Ridiculous 
