Hey come on, dun try to "jiang yi ge nu ren chong yi ge huo keng
la chu er tui jing ling yi ge huo keng". Y encourage her to have
sex with her bf?? What's the rationale behind it? It is because
that love n love n all those f**k love talk that girls lost theirs
to jerks. I m not saying all ur bf ard u r jerks. But one thing I
can tell you, if he really love u, I think he wun mind waiting till
the day u married then do lah. U know, which guy dun wish his own
bride to be a pure one?
I am not trying to condemn all guys out there. But there are jerks
who slowly "attack and manipulate" the females' mind. First is some
light sexual activity and later on will move on to heavy ones and
of cos, ur virginity will not be spared! Some guys who got tired,
will think of ways to ditch you, then u must prepared not to have
suicidal tots. Sometimes such a blow is enough to let ppl have
suicidal tots or rather attempt suicides!! So, watever u do, think
of the consequences, not only u will be involved at times, but ur
family members who are concerned abt u too. Think twice n hard
before you act n give in. Cos once it is done, there is no turnin
back. N good luck to your future husband to be.