Wat does a Fling means 2 u?

Hitakogi SG

Jus wanner know how much do u mean by having a fling?
Sex with no relationship commitment?
does it really means that?
if it is so, then wats the point of going into a relationship?
anyone can enlighten me?

adelina SG

perharps for pleasure and company...
cannot commit ..
know friends that are attached and yet have flings
Its diff when u have a bf and another one courting u(fling)
both jus dun treat u the same...
it feels good having some going after u

Hershey SG

Having a fling is like havin a realtionship with no committments...maybe just for the sake of having some company, or having someone to listen and talk to you..no necessary it has to end up with sex(although most of the time it does!!)

Anyway both parties can be either attached or be married but if really you want to consider having a fling, then must understand one concept, no committments, anytime you can back out of this fling and no ill feelings about it....

Devil1976 SG

Smile So you're saying that you're also one attached and enjoy people flirting with you...? Wink

Hitakogi SG

i dun mind,
since haing a fling seems better
why do u people still go into relatonship?
it seems u get get almost anything here, y not ? hahaa

Devil1976 SG

The BIGGEST DIFFERENCE is Love....? Wink

skycrawler SG

fling is ....
a step for making "clash of the lovers" ....
an ecstasy for a fool who never knows how to end the affection for more and more...
a beginning of endless madness adn crying....
Sad Sad Sad

Hitakogi SG

well is there truth love in this world?
l rem someone told me love a person is to let go,
wat abt having a fling?
does it means totally no love?
hehe .. i dun really think so ....

Hitakogi SG

ur way of saying abit Chin lay,
can break dun abit more,
me last time didn't study hard ...

jOhO SG

no not he cheem..

it's just outright un-understandable (no such word of course.. but wat the hell.. i'm just joining the crowd)....

Idea

Devil1976 SG

Just wondering... Are you a male or a woman speaking your point of view..? Wink Anyway, having a fling can have feeling... Quite far from Love...? Sure it doesn't mean that the fling can't develop into a LOVE... But TILL THEN, it's still a different issue altogether...? Wink

I still think fling are more for people who just wants things INSTANT... Or are afraid to be hurt.... Who just want something for the sake of having it (some fun?) and NOT to truly seek any reason for meaning behind it... Cool

Devil1976 SG

BTW, loving someone is not totally about to let someone go... This phrase is used to simulate the freedom and respect you should have for the other people if you love him/her... And it's also a sense of COMPLETE TRUST..... Wink

Devil1976 SG

Originally posted by skycrawler:
fling is ....
a step for making "clash of the lovers" ....

Not certain. But I think he might mean the intial step for a couple to know each other...?

an ecstasy for a fool who never knows how to end the affection for more and more...

Like a drug to a fool who don't know how to stop his/her desire for more and exercise self-control and restrain....

a beginning of endless madness adn crying....

I guess might either be talking about in the case of a development into Love, it's gonna be another sad story... OR such relationship simply won't get you nowhere...?

skycrawler SG

ah my intrepeter....... Rolling Eyes Embarassed

Hitakogi SG

i'm a guy here la,
well it seems u really study alot in the past,
haha...
anyway thx,

hmmm .... anyway, how many ladys here enjoz having a flings?
i las time oso rem last time got someone told me this,
women luv to hav sex with the man she luv,
but man jus wants lots of sex,

can tell me?

Jaws SG

i oso wan fling….any gal interested?

Devil1976 SG

Mr. Green When am I getting my PAY CHEAQUE..?

Devil1976 SG

Originally posted by Hitakogi:

i'm a guy here la,
well it seems u really study alot in the past,
haha...
anyway thx,

Nay... In fact I was a BOCHAP and LAZY bum... Wink

Devil1976 SG

Hey, you didn't leave your number behind how I call you? Mr. Green

skycrawler SG

later...which bank? Mr. Green