Zeke is the name of this girl i knew on the net. We have to be
together as friends for almost a year plus now. What would made a
girl to withdrew herself from society and friends? She would avoid
my calls, my sms. After i brought her in to my friends' co, working
there for 3 months she just vanish. I tried calling her home, no
one picks up. And when it did she just told me I'm not interested
to tok to u at the moment. I'll return u the money i own u. And
then she hangs up. I'm worry for her, she has a bf who is 2 years
younger then her studying in jc whereas she is already working. She
bought stuff for him, like spawn toys and models. There is even one
time she loan money to her bf not just once but umpteen times. I
know this is non of my business. She knows i like her. She knows i
have feelings for her. I got rejected quite a number of times liao.
Used to it that i just merely treat her as someone i care not
someone i would see myself with in the future. There are times she
told me about another guy who is trying to chase her, and i would
get piss and started to tell her off. (Jealous since she could let
other guys chase her and not me) I think she treat me more like a
big brother. (which i really really hate) And now she just doesn't
like to be disturb. I can't believe she told me she is not
interested to tok to me afterall i done for her. (Introduce her a
job which i earn alot in just 1 month, lend her money, support her
emotionally, hear her cry alot of times, fixed her PC whenever she
needs help.) I'm not being sympathetic towards her, just want to
help her. I just want to tell her i care and i dun like to see her
get hurt thts all. I was told by my friend, I'm being over
protective as a friend she most girls dun like tht. I'm nt looking
for her becos of the money, i looking fo her becos i'm worried for
her. I was her before, low self esteem, inferior, dun like to tok
to people. Just want to be alone. But after my friends introduce me
to ADT (i believe u heard b4) I'm talking to all soft of people in
my life rite now. So i tot it could happen to her also. But just
after 1 month she cried (Bro commit su..., low on money and don't
like to talk to people) I'm really confuse rite now. Guys and gals
help me out here? Shld i just refrain from her as she told me, r
shld i go up to her house and try my luck with her (talk to her
lar, nt wanting to be her bf, i got rejected 10 over times i think)
Need your opinion. Thks
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