To Belle,
On your question with the need to be laid, it should be a question
of the need to satisfy lust.
Do it if you see the opportunity, but in order to practise safe
sex, you can't rush things. Get to know your partner first, if not
you can't guarantee.
Remember even if there is a relation between lovers or sex
partners, I would stress on this point that most men (most, not
all)view sex as a tool of lust, while most women view it as a way
for men to express their care and love in the form of sex. Men
often stray away from their path becoz of this reason and act upon
their lust. I do admit women (minority) sometimes do the
same.
Generally, that would be the rule of thumb. This is just my general
opinon, you do not have to agree/disagree or dispute about
it.
Sex is a taboo in Singapore (remember that), do what you will, but
you can't change the opinon of your fellow Singaporean.
One note to add, if you want satisfaction in sex, you have the talk
it out because we men, can't just read the minds of women and know
exactly what they want.
Have a good day.
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T.L
