i wish i wasnt a virgin

blackhair SG

any help would be appreciated

Chaz_Sunderland SG

Hm, well I can't say I'm the most suitable person to advise you on this, but I have posted a similar topic here (but with very pathetic results :p)

Before I can actually effectively help your current situation, could you provide me with a few details like WHY you would wish not to be a virgin? I've gained some understanding since then and am now not quite as desperate as I used to be :p

Chaz_Sunderland SG

Oops, sorry about that. Something went wrong somewhere and I posted the same message twice.

Rheoincarnate SG

me too
i'm one too...
help me too?

for me...i want to keep it for my loved one..
not because of religion or annything but because it's a disciplin i wish to keep for my partner so that my love is pure
i am abit old fashioned..

that's about it..

grumpy77 SG

personally, i think the most important thing is that you gave it to the person you love most.

lanxx SG

Loving the person is the most important thing. No point being a virgin and not love the person enough.

l3stat SG

yep… agree completely.. keep it. no hurry to give it away even if all your friends around you have. take it as something sacred, even if you believe in any religion or not.

The.Belle SG

Hi, I wished I'm not a virgin. And why are we hoping tht we get laid as soon as possible? Personally, it's easy to get a guy who would screw u, no strings attached. It's easy to be a slut and invite the guys. U make it sound like u can't wait to pop ur cherry. Any guy at the clubs would do u. Juz step in the guys' loo and give anyone of 'em a blowjob. tht's what a slut, or a gal who wants to lose her virginity would do. Thing is, deep inside, we dun want to lose our virginity just like tht. U know it somewhere in ur heart tht u know it's not the right time. and when it comes, it comes. I'm 16 (I know this is an adult page, but ah well) and waiting. I'd have sex with the next guy I'm with.

------------------
Luv, _Belle_

Rheoincarnate SG

The reason is because people don't want to lose theirs to someone who they are not going to cherish or love..

Just imagine sharing it with someone you thought was worth it and finding out later that he's not really worth sharing your personal stuff with..

but you cant' really be sure until you try right? So at the age of 16-20++ is the time when patience seems to be very thin...

If you wait a little longer you might just meet someone you know will make you happy..
When you are older probably be more tactful and wiser in making decisions..

But if you can't wait.. then go ahead but you have to be aware of the consequences..

The Goat named Ram

[] SG

hey, it's cool to be a virgin...u'll seems more unattainable and when you finally give it to a guy you really love...u'll remember it for life and i bet he will appreciate that.. Smile so, hold on to it while he's not here yet!good luck.

Givache SG

So here's a question for all brothers and sisters out there....
would you choose someone u dun really love but is a virgin or someone u really love but not a virgin?

-_-