Belle: Sorry, actually u will be faced with this problem
someday. U are saying u are pure, simple and innocent...... hmm....
would u be asking these question if u are simple and innocent? I am
not trying to do some personal attack, but just answering ur thots.
Okay... I will use "one" if that makes u more comfortable.
Btw, if u girls out there are thinking abt whether u should be
giving that "thing" to ur bfs, do really seriously think abt it. A
number of factors are important. One factor is whether the guy is
committed to the r/s. Can be seen from his daily actions, the way
he pays attention to u, whether he is attracted to the opp. sex
when he is with u, whether he is matured in his thinking. If he has
all the above qualities, most probably u can give the "thing" to
him as pre-martial sex is so common nowadays.
But be prepared to get really attached to this guy, girls. Be it
emotionally and physically. Lastly, when u (girls) start the
love-making sessions, most probably u guys will be doing it very
often as sex is very addictive.
And last to top up, the guy will be looking for other targets
(girls) if one give her V to him. Physical and emotional aspects in
guys can be differentiated easily. E.g. he can have sex with a pros
though he has no emotional attachments with her.
Guess I getting long-winded here. Hope to answer some of the
queries that are going in all the girls' mind.
