Basically there is no book like "1001 ways to get a girlfriend".
But one simple thing that my Communication Skills tutor taught me
was, guys dun have to go thru great length to attract a girl, they
only have to listen, use their hearts to listen to what a girl got
to say.
I would say it is quite true, when i listen to ppl's problem, i use
my heart to listen, and use my brain to advise. Thats when friends
will come in and appreciate you for being there. This dun have to
apply to gers alone, even to guys, they also need a listening ear n
heart too. (get it gers?)