the fact tt u may actually lose ur house already
shows tt ur old method of managing money sucks.
try the first few methods i mentioned to get ur 5k. and after
tt, go find a finance counsellor who can advise u on the proper way
to deal wif financial matters
>>> To those who type the above (READ: CATHYKITTY), not
all who got stucked with financial situation caused by their own
stupid act. I don't have to elaborate all this to you... Though I
appreciate your thoughts, but don't JUMP to conclusion.
Secondly, if everybody has lots of jewellery or if everybody's
relative willing to help, they'll be nobody involve in Ah Long... I
guess one day when you are in desperate needs you will understand
what I'm trying to say.
To the rest... thanks for advice/idea/consent/thought (whatever
you all might call it) I appreciate it...
sorry man. i suppose i did jump to conclusions.
let me ask u one question: if u have a son who is in financial
trouble, will u encourage him to borrow fr ah long?
>> I guess one day when you are in desperate needs you
will understand what I'm trying to say.
how u know i've nv been in similar situation before? u also jump
to conclusion hor?
i know very well what's the impact of borrowing fr ah long on a
family. it is frightening for family members, especially if u have
creditors banging on ur door at nite. but i dun suppose u will
understand, until u have experienced it for urself.
if u dun wanna listen, and are so selfish to not consider how
borrowing fr loansharks will affect ur family, then u hao zi wei
zhi. but dun regret when ur family members lose their respect
for u.
it doesn't even matter tt u can pay them back promptly. the fact
is, they are illegal. if u dunno how to solve ur problems thru
legal means, u borrow once, next time when u have financial crisis
(touchwood la), u are likely to borrow fr them again.
i really hope u dun have children of ur own now. i wonder what
they will tink of a father like tt.