Up to you.
Some people prefer ribeye, some tenderloin. If you want something
softer, go for the tenderloin.
Although it is on hotplate, it really depends on the chef. I have
my steaks come medium rare to me on hotplate and sometimes it comes
medium well to me even though I ordered medium rare.
To be safe, order medium well if you do not like the taste of
blood
Actually for someplace more romantic, you can consider 'The Ship'
too 
