Originally posted by SGEMP:
I think I have seen too much of such cases.
In one of the cases, a HK-based bus fan had split off with his
girlfriend in June this year probably because of his hobby. (I knew
of this thru his website.) 
Well, now, I am very damn of my current unfortunate situation. Very
damn of this! 
In my school, I could not explain why:
1) I was always left alone;
2) I could not and did not get the type of friends whom I had
desired for;
(I would reveal what type of friends they are later in the private
message.)
[b]I FEEL I WAS ALWAYS SHUNNED BY THE ONES WHOM I DESIRED
FOR!
3) I always encounter and be troubled by the undesirables (such as
Jordan of DMSS S3E4/2005)
and 4) I was always left at risk of being helplessly bullied by the
damn normal acads and my school's rugby team members.
And to make matters worse, I was spending each day in school
lonely, no one to talk to me or to take note of me other than the
damn undesirables.
Also, be it in Recess or after school or in class group works I was
always left alone in numerous cases, some of them "even rejected me
openly"! 
And so, in the end, I did not get what I want; desired ones
probably shunned me and got all their best positions i.e. the Singa
award. 
IF SUCH SITUATION DOES NOT IMPROVE (i.e. got the desired ones as my
friends) BY NEXT YEAR'S CHINESE NEW YEAR I RATHER HAVE MYSELF
CLOSED FROM THE UNDESIRABLES!
by being a
Christian or a Buddhist monk!
And so, I wanted to ask:
1) Is it because of my hobby as a general transportation fan, or my
other characters, traits, or bad luck (I believe in superstition
though.) that pulls/pulled and sunk me into my current damn
unfortunate situation?
2) Is it very common that general transport fans and bus fans are
always at risk of being shunned by others, left alone, and to face
up all sorts of undesirables?
and 3) Is it there are any ways to help me out of my current damn
unfortunate situation. 
Thank you for saving me from the undesirables.[/b]
I sympathise with your situation, but
1) this may not be the best place to air your problems at all
2) you need to seek professional advice - and none of us are
professionals in this area - you probably should see a
psychologist, a psychiatrist or a counsellor. In the long run, you
might end up suffering from depression. Speak to your parents or
guardian or whoever. Talk to an adult.
3) i believe it's about your own character. Why dun you do a self
reflection first?
4) Such things occur everywhere. Maybe ppl r jealous of you; maybe
by your actions and stuff ppl misunderstand u. Someone once told me
that there's always someone who will always be the butt of people's
teasing & torment. Unfortunately for you, you happen to be the
object of attention.
5) You can simply choose to ignore them, but at your age, it's
difficult.
6) You can simply wreck revenge on them (not advisable), but then
again, when you do so, make sure you do not flout the school rules
or the law.
7) Most importantly, read Point 2 and think about it.
Well, no one can stop the bullying for you. You just have to make
the best use of whatever situation you are in.
