notch the void deck kind ?
usually just stand/sit ard and wait and after that pay ur
respects, talk to the family a bit if u r close... then sit and
wait awhile more then go off loh...
sigh... lately attending quite a number of wakes.... frickin
sad
its at my friend's house. I waited until they finished their
prayers, then I went to pass the pek kim to my friend and talked to
her for a while before I went off..