Originally posted by OCEANOS:
[b]Merry Meet coffeeortea,
Well its always hard to make the first step but if one never make
the first step there will not be any movement, if you never try you
will never know. Just give her more time, the best you can do at
the moment is staying by her side, encouraging her giving her moral
& emotional support.
Blessed Be,
Oceanos[/b]
yup its always hard to make a first step.. and if u dun try u
will indeed never know.
But i think (and this is just what I think) another problem here
is, the difficulty of admitting you have a problem. Sometimes you
dun wan someone else to help becos you dun think they cld ever
understand.
And you wld be right too... cos no one can fully truly understand
you but yourself. Another problem is possibly refusing to admit
something is wrong to the extent you need help. Maybe its the
stigma like Harry said.
Or maybe you believe or want to believe that you can overcome it
yourself. Sometimes its like that especially if you have a bit of
pride.
My kinda mental issues are boring. The life not worth living and
nothing/no one worth living for, and also the nothing worth doing
type of moments get me sometimes. Always do things that I dun
really wanna do but end up doing anyway.
Suicide thoughts may enter but I know the moment hasnt come to end
it yet. Though in a twisted way, I wonder when.
So yah my issues will probably be waved off by people as naive and
dumb or what lar.. Like I said I m quite comfortable with them
now.
