Peng
# For you, "love is all eyes and doesn't have a single good one"
(Chinese proverb). Thus, you are careful about the dangers of
passion. You don't want to let yourself be taken to any mirage, any
dream. It's why you often find yourself deprived of beneficial
fantasy and rather disarmed when you deal with the sentimental
sphere.
# You run the risk of having serious difficulties before securing a
successful love life. On top of such difficulties are your
recoiling reaction, and your will to take time to analyze a
project, to weigh the pros and the cons of a proposal. Sometimes
this recoil is so obvious that your partner gets discouraged and
looks for someone else.
# When feelings overwhelm you, there's often a sort of panic that
invades you. Emotional outbursts appear somewhat suspect to you for
you are excessively reserved. You're also greatly in awe of
ridicule, and as a general rule it's only through a delicate,
sincere approach that one can tame you.
# Paradoxically, you can let yourself be charmed by more
instinctive, more expansive beings. But then there can be
established certain misunderstanding between the two partners, one
being too serious and the other too unstable.
# In order to have a successful sentimental life, you must learn
not to let your career life bear exaggeratedly over your couple
life. You must also accept a small part of fantasy and unforeseen
events, which will help avoid monotony. For the great majority of
bearers of your first name, an amorous union must be concluded on
the base of mutual esteem and, consequently, can bloom in a
discreet but profound and durable love.
# As you are extremely cautious, you still prefer loneliness to an
ill-assorted union. This first name supplies a large group of
single people. One cannot see a matter of hazard here. On one hand,
there's mistrust ; on the other hand, exactingness. You protect
yourself against all intrusion, you distrust the excesses of
passion. You're afraid to be violated, invaded, or to be asked
outer demonstrations which you abhor. Your reservedness, your
reticence certainly do not help communication, which you refuse
with every fiber of your being.
# Of course, you are not allergic to marriage as a matter of
principle, but you wait to find an ideal partner before engaging
yourself definitely. Nevertheless, at times, contrary to your
ingrained habit, you may want to have a few short-lived adventures,
deciding that your great love can wait.
# Living in couple with you is not very entertaining, unless your
partner possesses treasures of patience and understanding.
Hmm, like not very good things... Grr. I knew i should have
born to some other family.. haha~
