Twin Flames have no karma to
work out between them, there never has been, never will be and come
together for no other reason than unconditional love. Twin Flames
love each other with no expectation of the other and with no
conditions attached to the giving of that love. It is easy to say
that you love someone unconditionally but you need to ask yourself
could you love this person if for some reason they could not remain
with you? Could you give your love to this person with no
expectations, not even that the love will be returned or even
recognized? Can you love this person for no other reason than there
is simply no other option available to you? If you can answer a
resounding (and honest) yes to all of the above then you are
experiencing unconditional love. But be careful here my friend for
Spirit is listening and may put that love to the test, Spirit may
require that you prove yourself worthy of this love and place you
in a situation wherein you must truly discover if this is an
unconditional love by separating you, sometimes only temporarily
sometimes permanently, depending on what lessons you have to learn
in this lifetime.
Which brings us to another point, Twin Flames are earned not a
given, you must prepare yourself to be able to join with your twin
flame, it is not an automatic, it is a gift. And as a gift, it is
truly a privilege to know your Twin Flame but you must be ready.
How do you become ready you ask? Well you will have to learn to
love deeper than you ever thought possible and that usually means
meeting, loving and losing "near twins" which are in reality
Companion Soul Mates. Are you brave and strong enough to be able to
risk loving with your heart and soul just to have the dream
shattered? If not then seeking your Twin Flame is not for you for
you must deepen your capacity to love before you can know
unconditional love and that means experiencing pain as well as joy.
The more pain you have experienced the more joy you are capable of
holding within. Sometimes the cup of love must be completely
shattered before it can be built strong enough to hold the love of
your Twin Flame. Steel is tempered through flame and your heart
must be tempered through pain before it is strong enough to protect
the love of your Twin.
When Twin Flames come together they become one, they are not like
each other, they are the mirror image of the other. They think
alike, they hold the same values and often their life experiences
are very similar, sometimes they will actually look like each
other. By that they will have similar builds, bone structures and
features. This is not however a guide as to whether you have met
your Twin Flame or not.
Twin Flames do not teach each other, they learn together and help
each other learn the lessons that have been set before them in this
lifetime. When Twin Flames come together they join forces and are
capable of overcoming obstacles the average mortal could not begin
to face. They are so filled with unconditional love, they literally
glow with it and have much to share with others. They are the
inspiration that poets write about and singers sing about.
Another warning I would give at this point is that it is important
that we avoid the trap of measuring each relationship against what
we believe a Twin Flame to be. For by doing this we lose the
opportunity of experiencing all the love that is placed in front of
us. Keep in mind that no matter what, if we are to be with our Twin
Flame then it will happen and by experiencing the loves placed
before us by Spirit we are preparing for the day that we meet this
special, special person. We also need to keep in mind that we are
not destined to meet our Twin Flame in each and every lifetime. The
chances of meeting this one perfect mirror is very slim, it does
happen and it seems to be happening more now than ever before, but
there are no guarantees.
