yes, conflicts and problem, we will have and continue to have, its
how we deal with these that help us grow.
however, there are things that can be dealt with, before it
becomes a problem/conflict, these should be delt with, very
fast.
as for outsider, ... love is blind... sometime, these "outsider"
meant well when they raise this alarm (maybe, they need training on
communication skill, haha)...
anyway... good to discuss this with you, Unker...
i have seen people who assume that those in such situation are
blinded by love... and decidely to play kaypoh chee....
even in my church, one time, a pastor disagreed with the
matching out of two people and keep questioning why they are
together...mind you, these two are Christians....
this pastor started to pass negative remarks on them.... so go
figure.... why do people do such things.... why do we assume we
know better....?
actually if i remember correctly, when i courted my wife, there
are some people not happy, because my wife was not even 18.....
we make choices, we bear the consequences of these choices,
nobody should interfere.
