Brey, Yom Kippur is just 10 months away. Remember what is to be
done for the day? Ask for forgiveness from others before God can
forgive you. So don't say xie4 qi4 hua4. Be more magnanimous.

I commented on what I thought, since you put a public post up.
But I do realise that it is not my place to tell you how you should
raise your kids. Hence the comment. It is between you and Yahweh.
Like I have said before, you are too sensitive.
Actually when I read that part of your quote, I thought it
sounded condescending. 
Macross and protoculture have nothing to do whatsoever with going
against Yahweh. The golden compass is exactly that. If you cannot
see the difference, then, your problem.
Personally I see nothing wrong with watching problematic shows
like Golden Compass if the intention is to guide your kids.
Surely it is better than those who have shunned the movie, then
condemn the movie non-stop. When people ask whether they have seen
the movie, then they go opps! Wa leow, never see the movie but
still talk so much?
Regarding parenting,
Unker Eng may seems like a "anything also can" parent. Harry Potter
is ok, Golden Compass is ok, Narnia is ok, Christmas is ok
etc.
But I have observed, he can temper discipline with freedom very
well. The same parent who allows Harry Potter also emphasize the
solemnity of worship. When kids run around during service, he is
displeased and thought the parents should be doing something.
I also believe he has a limit. Things like oujia board should be a
no-no for his kids. 