Last time, parents, mostly uneducated, didn't know how to help
their kids from going astray, send them to church. Now parents,
educated, like the Dr. Lee, want their children to stay far far
away from church to prevent the family being torn apart.
Is a church a place to teach children the values of Christianity,
thus changing their life for the better, or another place like
internet gaming shops and bowling centers, where kids hang out with
friends?
if your church think that caning, scolding, grounding, detention
can add discipline to kids life, their parents would be the first
to support you. But do you think punishment is the way to teach? If
you think it is, then there is indeed something wrong with the
fundamental teachings in these mega church.
Suggest the mega church tell the congregation this: "if you don't
reconcile with your parents, if you are not making your parents
happy, then don't offer any money to the church, for God would be
pleased with you loving your parents before accepting any amount of
money you have to offer." You think the preachers of the mega
church would take such risk?