Can someone help me with this ?

davidche SG

[b]I think that theres sth beyond understanding. A good eg will be this.

I mean everyone(most ppl) knows that the 3rd Point of view on you doesnt define hu you r ?

Which implies to someone to have a higher self esteem cos wad ppl say about doesnt make up wad you r?

So if someone says u r a big fat pig you can choose not to accept this guys view.

Then this 'view' wont affect you into thinking that your really a big fat person and thus self esteem wont be [b]as low.

Do u understand till now wad im saying?? lol Very Happy Laughing [/b]

So most ppl know this theory althought i love to make it more complicated.[/b]
Then why do ppl still have this thing called shame. I mean when alot of ppl looks at you but they say nothing youll feel shameful rite? But they dont have any 'views(big fat pig)' as mentioned up. The ppl around you dont speak anything about you but yet you feel ashamed and you start to c whether you forgot to zip your pants and stuff.

So wad is this invisible killer that just by one look it can make a person feel uncomfortable?

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The Elder SG

Originally posted by davidche:
I think that theres sth beyond understanding. A good eg will be this.

I mean everyone(most ppl) knows that the 3rd Point of view on you doesnt define hu you r ?

Which implies to someone to have a higher self esteem cos wad ppl say about doesnt make up wad you r?

So if someone says u r a big fat pig you can choose not to accept this guys view.

Then this 'view' wont affect you into thinking that your really a big fat person and thus self esteem wont be [b]as low.

Do u understand till now wad im saying?? lol Very Happy Laughing

So most ppl know this theory althought i love to make it more complicated.
Then why do ppl still have this thing called shame. I mean when alot of ppl looks at you but they say nothing youll feel shameful rite? But they dont have any 'views(big fat pig)' as mentioned up. The ppl around you dont speak anything about you but yet you feel ashamed and you start to c whether you forgot to zip your pants and stuff.

So wad is this invisible killer that just by one look it can make a person feel uncomfortable?

mods: feel free to delete this if you dont like it.[/b]

Wow! It's really beyond understanding! Laughing

I think that theres sth beyond understanding. A good eg will be this.

davidche SG

hehe. Feel the deepness of Davidche's wrods!!

xiang4 shan yi yang4 gao
xiang4 hai3 yi2 yang4 shen

SingaporeTyrannosaur SG

Deepness? Or purple prose? I suspect the purpose of words is to communicate, and having failed to use that for that purpose might indicate a certain weakenss or flaw on the part of their user. It might be unfortunate.

Why do people feel shame? There are many reasons for it...

Icemoon SG

this is so ..

I won't say it out of respect.

Raptured SG

Tie3 bang4 mo2 chen2 zhen1. Laughing

babyys SG

this only a shrink can answer! tink even a shrink will be clueless…..

laurence82 SG

How you know?

I think, before a shrink can diagnose this, he has to be able to read what the topicstarter typed.

Laughing

davidche SG

i wasnt surprised by your comment. I already said i have a problem with communication, in other words, a use of incorrect words.

basically the bolded word r redundent. did a few changes, hope you guys can understand!

SingaporeTyrannosaur SG

I must apologize, I realize my post my ironic... and it could be a certain effect I was aiming for.

But I don't really get what you mean anyway. Laughing