Certainly not... I would not. 
The thing is, it may very well be that we get the very thing we
want in the end, but not all of us may like it. I might want very
contradictory things so it seems... not want the doctor to operate
on my infected leg but still expect to keep it without any
treatment.
And I never supposed hell was about being barbequed for an
eternity, it seems to me to be something far beyond in
comprehension that any experience in our five senses can ever
imagine... the things written in the bible are symbolic... because
I suspect our language cannot describe hell.
First and formost why I said that in hell we may get our wish could
be very well be found, that we have an existence that is competely
devoid of the One that sustains it. We wanted to be free of this
pesky, nosy God who makes demands of us an indeed now we have
completed this divorce.
Of course we might have made such a choice without considering many
other things, as in the very existence that we were given, every
thing we have enjoyed and found good never really came from our own
doing at all, and were never in our power to keep. I think the self
is fufilled in hell, but it's anything but the existence we
imagined it to be.
I do not think of it as punishment, but rather a pretty fair trade
of things. If I don't want God I might do good to consider that
everything I own and found good actually belongs to Him, and to
reject Him may very well mean to reject everything else that really
keeps us alive. It's a little like wanting to be free from air, but
we can't blame air for the things that happens to us when we
finally reject it.
Is such a God (if He exists) selfish in making hell a possibility?
I suspect it's only a possibility because He is not selfish, and is reluctant to
control us, limiting His actions to only a wooing of us. Allow us
to ignore Him, mess up His work and yet keep our reality
running.
There is of course more that I would like to say about this issue,
but I would suggest we stop at these notions, to keep our talk
focused.
