well I really don't care about this until it was said that St.
Valentine's Day is a Christians festival implying that Christians
should observe.
actually checking into a room is an issue even for non christians.
My company used to organise a seminar and to save costs put two in
a room, until the last two, happened to be one man (just married)
and a lady (not married). Hmm...it was not a Chrisitan
consideration, they were given separate room. 
They din talk about relationship but they value the
relationship. When my father was sick, I could hear my mother
talking about how he din know how to take care of himself, and at
the same time, she is cooking all kinds of food and herb to help
him. Many old folks, quarrelled like dogs and cats but when on of
them passed away, the others easily go into depression. They may
not feel happy, but they also do not believe they could find
happiness going to a third person. Luckily for me, my parents find
happiness with my children.
China went through 1966 to 1976 with no change in their society
(the cultural revolution period). It is the changes in the little
things that changed our society, but did we change our society or
our society changed us? 
