I nid help

A.C.Y SG

Hi..My problem is dat i dont believe in existence of god......although i was born in a christian family.. I jus keep feeling dat wen bad stuff happens ,it is e cause of god and whyz he is nt fair to humans (eg,wealth ,brains) so on,,,.......Sometimes,i jus feel dat i curse him to vent my frustration wen stuff go wrong.

Yah, sometimes...i jus dont keep my promise to god....... My dad is a understanding guy who keep asking me to go church but i have nt attended church regularly 4 years..

Actually i jus feel lost sometimes and actually believe him wen i am at a loss and nt noe wad to do to deal with my problems........

I feel dat i am a lost now to deal with my problems and dats why i actually wan and nid his help,,,,,,,I NID a miracle

i nid some advice,

Suicine SG

Then maybe Christianity is not for you.

vince69 SG

Not trying to be sacrastic here, but I do sense that you are having some confusion here, I mean how do you curse/vent your frustration at someone you don't believe exist?
(I remember there was a period of time when I was going through some very tough time, and I cursed God, and God in his loving kindness says this to me "At least you still believe I exist, and not given up completely").

As you mentioned, your dad is a very understanding person, perhaps you may want to have a talk with him, let him know your problem, perhaps he can advise/help you. Very Happy

fallin SG

Let me share a certain verse when I myself had problems.

Matthew 9:13-But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners."

Jesus didnt die for people who to church. Jesus didnt die for people who give millions to charity. He died for sinners, people who curse and scream at him. He died for Paul,chief persecuter of the church. He died for Peter, the person that deny him 3 times. He died for regular Joes like you and me. Don't ever feel that God is gonna abandon you.

SingaporeMacross SG

To add to that, Jesus did live amongst the average joes like us. All the more he would feel for us.

sillyme SG

Hi ACY,

Have you spoken to your dad about your problems?

shade343 SG

Well, there is nothing wrong if you dont believe in the existence of God. It could be that you are not ready to believe in him yet. But your last statement is a bit contradictory. If you do not believe in God, why are you asking for his help in the form of a miracle?

Believing in God is not about asking for miracles. Its about taking control of your life and learning how to deal with the problems you face.

Chin Eng SG

I agree with most of the replies here.... too many contradictions.

Don't believe in God and curse God when things go wrong just cannot be in the same statement.

We all have problems. What makes us what we are is how we deal with them. You already have a wonderful resource by your side - your dad. I have come across too many young chaps having issues with their parents and my heart is warmed by your statement that your dad is an understanding person. You need to confide with him more.

Beyond that, I don't think anyone here in EH can help, especially when we do not know the nature of your problems.

If you cannot share openly, may I suggest you PM some of us, I am sure sillyme, brey, mc, laoda or myself are willing to lend a listening year.

FBI SG

sometiems i felt the same way as u

dragg SG

there are bound to be doubts.

only those who never face the truth say there is no doubt.

Repented John SG

No, Christianity is for you. It helps you when you are lost.

Repented John SG

Amen. Preach it brother or sister!

Repented John SG

Amen, brother or sister.