Bimarck,
what u can do it this.
1) Discuss it with another knowledgeable church friend. Then when
both are agreeable, go together and talk to the pastor nicely. Give
the pastor some time to reply. After some time, if pastor not reply
you both, then go n inform the higher authority lor.
2) If all in authority are in cohoot, what I can say is this:
whatever people say, we just take only those we feel is
right. We don't follow what we feel is wrong
Yes, pastor may tell u to follow entirely, but a pastor is not God.
Pastor only a representative. So he/she can be wrong.
BTW, I am not from any Church.