Previously integration was by two languages. Singlish and Pasar
Malay.
The young ones spoke Singlish - Malay, Chinese, Indian,
Sikh, Eurasian boys and girls spoke Singlish. The elders who spoke
no English spoke Pasar Malay - Malay, Chinese, Indian, Sikh,
Eurasian elders all spoke Pasar Malay. And there was harmony. There
was the kampong spirit.
When the kampong was gone, it was Singlish and Pasar Malay that
held the community together. Slowly Pasar Malay fell away to
disuse, as the younger generation grew up unable to speak Malay and
were encumbered with Mandarin. Housing policy design to prevent
ethnic enclaves affected the Malays and Indians only. They Chinese
were everywhere, struggling with English and Mandarin. Gone also
were the dialects, namely Hokkien, Cantonese, Teochew, and
Hainanese. These were only spoken by the elders.
The aloofness came about. We don't know the names of our
neighbours, even after living next to each other for a number of
years.
Pol Pot tried to destroy the past and want to replace Cambodia
culture with a new order as quickly as possible.
Here the government did that insidiously. And now is trying to
reverse the damage by integration and reviving the kampong
spirit.