reference: http://sgforums.com/forums/1390/topics/323699
1. must have supporting documents such as ROM certificate, child
birth certificate...etc to prove to his Officer Commanding (OC) /
officer-in-charge (OIC).
2. there is no "office hours timing" during training
phrases such as BMT, on course for vocational training, outfield
training...etc.
3. time-off (for a few hours off camp) to witness your child
birth is subject to his commander's discretion due to training
schedule, with supporting documents such as a EDD (expected
delivery date) note/ memo from your O&G doctor/
gynecologist.
4. it's only when he is posted to a permanent unit, then he can
request for 8-5 office hours timing. usual route: BMT -> on
course (vocational training) -> permanent unit (till ORD).
5. after you are officially legally married, with the ROM
certificate + child birth certificate as supporting documents, he
can apply for a spouse/ dependent benefit cards for you and your
baby to have more subsidised healthcare at polyclinic/ public
hospital. do take note that the benefit cards are only valid during
his NSF stint.