Hi guys, I'm new to this forum so pardon me if I say anything I
shouldn't say or something like that you guys get the point.
Anyway, I'm a Temp Pes E ASA, PES has expired, but I'm still an
ASA pending medical review.
I used to take lotsa MCs and MAs (Stuff like that) and
apparently my boss a first warrant isn't happy with me.
He had a nice talk with me during an interview two months ago
and I've decided to stop taking MCs and MAs from den... so its been
like a few months since I last got any MCs and I've been trying to
behave as best as i could.
Today, there was an event outside camp, I'm a rider. But
yesterday my Sir told me not to ride to camp. He told me that there
is a bus service provided and asked me to take that bus. However, I
checked with my colleagues and I found out that the bus service was
for trainees and not perm staffs. Perm staffs are required to make
their way down by themselves, so i rode to the destination
myself.
(one more thing) so i was in the office yesterday and my Ma'am
(CPT) walked in. I heard about the event out of camp but apparently
some of the ASAs had to stay back in the office so I decided to ask
if I was required to stay back as well. So when my Ma'am walked in
I decided to clarify and so I asked her something like "Ma'am, I
have to be there tml as well right?" blah blah blah fast forward to
the morning of the out-of-camp event.
My sir saw me, and immediately gave me a scolding, not wanting
to hear any of my reasons and accusing me of not following
instructions, even threatened me that i would be put in DB. He told
me that there were clear instructions not to ride my bike there and
take the bus. But the thing is, I didn't know if I was allowed to
board the trainee bus at all and I preferred riding there because
then I dont have to travel all the way back to camp and then go
home from there. So what I did was to check with the rest of the
ASAs (all travelling there themselves) and head there myself.
Other than riding there myself, he scolded me for asking my
Ma'am that one simple question (if i needed to be there) and asked
me why I didn't go to him.
Fact was, At the point I was wondering if I needed to be there
there was no one in the office and at that moment coincidentally my
ma'am walked in. So i just asked her, I mean, is there something
seriously wrong to make sure so as to not make any
mistakes?
I'm sorry guys, for the longggggggg thread. I'm pissed off but
haven't talked back or anything like that to my superiors, I'm just
unhappy that he seems to pick on every small little matter, making
it into a big fuss.
What should I do? I called my parents to sort of whine after
gettin the scolding, and they are ready to talk to my superiors or
do anything to help me.
But i need ur experiences and advices guys. I'm not sure if
complaining is the right thing to do. Can anyone maybe drop me an
advice or something?
Anyway, really appreciate your time and effort in replying.
thanks guys.
