Hi im a 3sg medic, recently ive had like tons of family probs
plus gf stuff n crappy things all along the way n my timing in my
unit really screws me up coz i live like in msia n stuff so i dun
go home unless on weekends n stuff n i can only see my family
during those times n even that i also have stuff on weekends... as
such i reported i was stress to my camp MO who is also one of my
superiors n he referred me to PCC n SCC. Apparently im also
supposed to go for n overseas cover but im excuse overseas from my
psychiatrist since he said im too stressed up by my own probs, but
my own other superiors are not happy about it....they then raised
the issue above again and now the higher up wants to take action
against me saying tat as a 3sg ive not performed to the best
of my ability or excel or what not further crap and lead man and
stuff...but i have no man under me in the first place......and im
like thinking to myself..."DUDE i reported wayyy early they i am
not in the right mind now coz im really bummed by alot of
things...whats with this sudden take actions stuff..." i was goin
nuts n was like scared id break down n do stomethin stupid when i
talked to my psych who then told me to just talk it out with my MO
the same thing...then when raised higher up this guy then said tat
was an implied threat against superior as well n wanna take action
against that...
is there anything i can do about this?
Dude grow up !!! stop whining like a kid - for sake you are a
3SG
This is not the army issue also not your future employer
isseu.
You have weekends - you just have to make do best with the
allocated time. Too bad if you parent choose to stay in malaysia -
you cannot visit them so be it . A lot of malaysian & china
workers all worst off then you.
You have stuff in weekends ??? -then have stress in camp. Who
does not want to super long weekend and do what we want. But just
not possible - you just have make a choice and be happy with it.
Just that you too wimpy and greedy want all that why stress.
Stop using a stress and breakdown as and excuse, time you face
life as a man !!! On 2nd thought maybe charge you , remove
your 3SG then lock you up - resolve everything !!!
Like that you no need to worry and decide what to do with
weekend - stay lock up = no stress.