A newbie too. I would like something to create awareness to the
girls especially.
5 months
back, Iâve known this guy. I donât feel like going into details on
how we met and how the meet up was. Lemme just get straight into
the point. It all started where I liked him based on empathy. He
told me he had a son, not yet married. He is 1994, had a son with
his ex-gf. I was shocked in the first place, but I keep calm. I
remembered he even told me he was once a head of gangster. His face
looks innocent to me and he even told me he wanted a changed in his
life. Thats when I end up with him in a relationship. Thinking that
I could give him motivation to change for better. But Iâm wronged
all this while. I was blinded by his bullshits and âworldâ stories
in his life. I admit I was stupid & foolish that I have stayed
by his side for all this 5 months. He kept saying Iâm such a waste
of time and all. Even when we are out for âdatesâ, we pay our own
separate bills of foods & drinks. I had once confronted him
asking if he treat his previous gf like this, he said yes. Iâm like
wow okay. I tried breaking up with him countless times cause I
canât stand his behavior. But always end up patching back because
he knows to console me well. Unfortunately, things didnât went well
on 14 May 2015. I found out that he were contacting other girls
even when we were in relationship. Still contacting his ex whom he
had son with saying just for the sake of his son. When I confront
his ex, she doesnât even know that our relationship existed. All I
want to say here is, beware of this guy who going around playing
with girlsâs hearts. I am not here trying to get him back to me,
never at all. I just donât want other girls to be in the same place
as me. Nevertheless, I would like say thank you to him, a guy whom
initial name starts with A. Thank you for making a fool out of me
for 5 months long, u did a great job in that ďď Thank you for your
effort and time wasted on me. Thank you for your âgood deedsâ
towards me. Thank you for âloving meâ and âcaredâ for me. To end
this, please stop finding for me. Stop calling from different
numbers you get through your workplace. Stop asking your mum or
sister or your ex to even contact me. Donât do any extra account on
twitter just to contact me. Just focus on your current gf or gfs?
Well I donât know but yea I know youâre not single now. To his
current gf, please be extra careful whomever you are. Well if his
love for you is true then lucky you, but please tell him to stop
looking for me. Details for the guy: he is a malay guy living in
the Lion City, had a son with his ex-gf and is a 1994 human being.
May you still stay as âworldâ as you areď
Wow, I was just gonna
say "Hello" like everybody else.
Yet, started to read your post
and just finished.
These kinda guys are found in
every corner of the world. They are invalid scum & get their
egos from others. 5 months of your life might feel like a long time
now. But, I bet in 20 years time; you'll think "what a life
lesson". Sound like you've moved on, excellent. If he continues to
stalk you, have a word with the police?
On another note; Iâve
moved here from London in September 2014, with my wife & young
sons. I like it here, our HDB close knit community. And my wife
& sons adore it here.