i read through the whole thread and was mildly amused by you,
especially your 1st response to the news about the arrest of
someone -"SAF now finding scapegoat???!!" which paints in a single
crystallised moment to everyone how ridiculous you are and have
behaved.
You are totally oblivious and blind to how 'self-styled
victimised', irrational and prejudiced you sound. You already
decided and are bent on that it was SAF who "killed" the officer
and the man is also another "victim" when you have no facts on your
hand.
NS is mandatory for all citizens of a small vulnerable country.
You're welcome to leave and make somewhere else your home rather
than have the people here having to co-exist and put up with a
bitter person in their midst.
LOL, i feel so funny when i read your post above.
first of all, u're just a pooh-pooh girl who never even serve NS
before and u're airing your views as if you're some war veteran.
and u still can say "The root of the unhappiness is with
conscription, (which is necessary)".
if you're a SG male, then it will break your heart that 2 years
of your life is wasted away.
2 years = 17520 hrs.....imagine how much u can do with that time
(btw, in NS, 75% of the time is spent on slacking due to nothing to
do)
"NS is mandatory for all citizens of a small vulnerable
country."?? that's crazy. U can easily make that statement
because u're just a little girl who never served NS before.
u know, when war comes, i don't want to die in a war just
because the army mobilize me.
just because i'm born in Singapore, it's compulsory for me to
die if there's a war?
can't i have a choice of which path i wanna choose in life? war
comes, i will gladly be traitor to help the enemies to save my
lives.
I dunno about you, but since you look upon your alpha-male hubby
so fondly, i'm sure you'll only be too proud and happt if he were
to suffer the same fate as that WWII malay lieutentat who was
bayonetted to death after being wrapped in a sack with all the
blood flowing out of the sack. 
i suggest u just post in aunt agont solving relationship
problems cos' that's what girls like you are best at. 