same thing what...
Some guys also choosy. Why so many guys complain cannot get gf?
So many single ladies out there, though abit not so good
looking.
Equality? Equality only exist in legends 
Guys always want to be the one in control, wants to be a step
higher. Girls wants equality without forfeiting anything.
actually, to remain a healthy and long lasting relationship.
Look at some old couples...
To them, who's in control or who is the alpha is not impt.