ur fren is uttering bullshit lah...
its like ur own salary... u use all give girlfriend... at most
parents scold... not mindef...
u better chase ur money or else gone case liao...
to lend pple money, u must have the mentality that this money is
gone... u the creditor... chasing after ur own money still
need to beg for its return... thats y 'talk money
hurt friendship'...
my uncle said.... everytime he open a cheque to someone, he
loses this 'friend'....