I don't think its fair to stereotype and generalise.
I'm from the last batch to defer NS for overseas studies; I know
three other guys here. All of us have been overseas so long (almost
>half our lives), that NS seems like a nice change of pace - to
be able to go home.
Note the emphasis on going "home".
I've got 2 years to go before I have to serve my time, but my buddy
here who is going to go back in 4 weeks has begun training since
January - he actually flew back in June just to take the physical
fitness test!
I agree with what some of the other forumers have said that the
true nature of men will not surface until the time for it calls.
Society has changed alot. Used to be men who cry = "gu niang". Now,
its alright for men to cry.
People grumbling and fussing about trivialities is just a
reflection of the movement of time - only forward, never
backward.
Maybe you should ask the question, "how good a leader am I" or "how
good a soldier am I" when you're complaining about other people
complaining. Rather than just sit back, come to sgforums and vent,
maybe you should take a positive and proactive step in motivating
your peers and men.