For your info, I have lost someone whom I love and respect a lot
not to an incident like this but to disease. But I don't go around
in a daze and tell myself that everything in life is over. I picked
myself up and moved on with life. Yes, memories of him does come
back to me, but over the years, the pain has lessen very much.
Hence your first assumption is wrong.
For your next assumption, in no circumtances did I say I was a
commando. Again you assume based on what I write. Didn't you learn
that assumption is the mother of all F.U.C.K ups. I did not post
here to start an arguement. If you want to carry on to be offensive
in your language, expect the same from me. Stupid, brainless
thick-in-the-head ARSEHOLE! What I post here is merely my comment,
at no point did I force anyone to agree with me. You have your
bloody right to disagree, and so do I have my goddamn given right
to put foward my comments.
In your arguement, you speculated or predicted that his father
is unable to move on. Until some time after this incident has
passed, this is something you will not be able to be certain of. In
my point, it is based solely on my experience and conversations
with help groups counsellor that majority of the population who
have encountered death of their love ones are able to move
on.
How you feel about the accused is your own business, I have no
intention to know.
Life is full of unpredictable, be it an act of nature or human
intervention. The constructive way is to review the cause of death
and reduce the possibility of it happening.
Based on what you heard, you assume that you the whole of CDO
and possibiliy of SAF is screw-up. So for example, if you are
caught lying to your superior just this one time, can he brand you
a habitual liar? In any organisation, there are bound to be bad
hats. What is important is that bad hats like these are tracked
down and be flushed out of the organisation ASAP. Too right you
are, that you are unable to comment on WO Balakrishnan, you never
trained under him, and you don't know him personally.
No, I am not interested to hear your b.i.t.c.hing. You can keep
your bedtime stories for yourself.
Do it to yourself, it is cheaper and safer.
There is no 5-star or 4-star general in SAF. Again what you
think is your right to do so.
Are you sorry for the trainee's death or are you just trying to
win some compassion for yourself? That's a point only you yourself
know.
This is your opinion and I have no right to comment.