~ to the bear : i wish to know you better ...~

sillyme SG

ya.. even if one party gives in and 'reconciles'.. don't think it'll last.. it's just a temporary relief..

but then again.. a person in rejection can't see the obvious..

tare SG

congrats to bear and maya!!! hope all goes well.......... Very Happy

as for guys who cry easily..... 2 words: BUAY TAHAN! wat is tis mah... once a guy cry infrnt of me cos I "reject" him.... keep sobbing until I fed up, so I pressed my cigi into my arm right in fnt of his face.... he so shocked and stopped crying... and I went "stop liao? good.. I go liao..." and walk off......... Twisted Evil

NeonTetra SG

yeah...Brother Bear is a nice guy. Very Happy

KittynMeow SG

a person who cannot accept rejection can resort to very drastic measures... some guys who cannot contain themselves will start kicking a fuss like go to the gal's house and break the flowerpots, harrass the family members, create a racket hoping to humiliate the gal etc. some gals resort to stalking the guy and their new gf etc...

really wonder if they stop to think... because if they do, I'm sure they'll realise that the more they do that, the more antangonistic their ex-es will feel towards them.. not love.

Sir_Horny SG

wah din know got such ppl exist in this world....i thought only in movies!! mayb the family got history of mental sickness

sillyme SG

i'm guilty of doing irrational things too lah.. but at least my i didn't do very silly (yeah, i'm not silly afterall) stuff..

actually.. it's hard to think clearly when emotions cloud you.. so unless you are void of feelings.. then it's easier.. so can't blame them sometimes..

NeonTetra SG

whaa....Kak Maya mau kenalkan Abang Beruang ah?? Biak sekali ya!! Mr. Green

Dia tinggi dan gagah....haha

KittynMeow SG

true... its hard to think clearly when emotional... so all the more shouldn't act when emotional... should allow some breathing time to be alone to calm down a bit first, think through then act.

Not saying that the person is void of feelings lah... just that there is a need for rationality too.... because when a person is emotional, he or she will often do or say things that they don't mean and regret after that.

NeonTetra SG

Bear is a gentleman. He will if u come over. thats wat i think. Smile

sillyme SG

yup... temperance is a good virtue... most importantly when the cruch time comes we must act accordingly lor.. but sometimes it's just too hard..

choco B SG

Just a comment. Do you think that when a person is able to have some control over his emotions, or at least is able to stop and breathe before he takes any action.... then he doesn't really have extremely deep feelings invested?

Inzaghi SG

hmm....wat answer do u expect??....i think he's more rational lor..

sillyme SG

depends?
depends on whether how must one has been thru.. his/her maturity?

choco B SG

Oh er, not targeting at Sillyme lah. Just want to hear everybody's views. Smile

sillyme SG

i'm sillyme leh.. how can i be rational?? Laughing

NeonTetra SG

u r silly not stupid right? silly is intentional ignorant when one is smart. haha

Inzaghi SG

i also know lar.....but wat u recogn?..

KittynMeow SG

no lah... I tend to believe that that person is equally committed and has deep feelings, just that he has a more rational way of approaching problems....

tare SG

wat to say? I married such a man.... very controlled, rational and matured... but yes just cos he doesn't show it, doesn't mean he doesn't feel... sometimes such ppl feels even more cos they keep it deep inside and doesn't release it....

sillyme SG

wah.. i didn't know this definition..

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