Dealing with social situations

last SG · 2013-12-31T21:20:20+00:00

Just saying, if the reflex kicks in, please run out of the meeting room to shit/vomit. It is better get out of the room than to embrass yourself infront of s...

Capriceraven SG

This just came up my mind, I would love to discuss how to deal w those awkward and difficult situations in real life. How to remind 'cool' or handle it nicely. Ok, giving an example, what if you suddenly have a stomachache in the middle of a private tution class or a meeting. Or what if you haven't eaten and your stomach keeps growling. Please share some situations together and we'll discuss the best ways to solve it

ArJoe SG

You met your ex-lover while hanging out with your current girlfriend

Capriceraven SG

I've never experienced that before (meeting ex bf for me). Hahaha but if the current one is more superior (superficially) then that'll be great Kidding, it depends on how the prev r/s went.

ArJoe SG

I've never experienced that before (meeting ex bf for me). Hahaha but if the current one is more superior (superficially) then that'll be great Kidding, it depends on how the prev r/s went.

Let's say if the current girlfriend is better because the ex-lover dumped you, how would you resolve the situation?( Assuming that you and your gf are sitting beside your ex-lover in a café and there are no other seats available)

Capriceraven SG

I'm a girl, so I'll take it as my ex-bf and current bf. Honestly I'll really ignore the ex-lover. But I guess the best way is to introduce us and show a more confident and moved-on me, while making sure this ex-lover feels abit of embarrassment. I'll never be too harsh as that will only show myself as a 'loser'

Summer hill SG

Hunger problems- Drink lots of water before meeting if I am feeling hungry.

Sudden stomach problem- hmm just excuse yourself

ArJoe SG

Hunger problems- Drink lots of water before meeting if I am feeling hungry.

Sudden stomach problem- hmm just excuse yourself

What if your boss insist you to stay?(2nd situation)

ArJoe SG

TS how about you come out with a few awkward situations you have faced yourself?

Capriceraven SG

Hunger problems- Drink lots of water before meeting if I am feeling hungry.

Sudden stomach problem- hmm just excuse yourself

Water can actually make your stomach feel more empty, and growl more. (I've tried it)

Capriceraven SG

TS how about you come out with a few awkward situations you have faced yourself?

I messed most of them out. There was once my stomach growled in front of someone and I just said 'sorry I haven't eaten lunch yet' then she went on offering candies but I was too awkward and didn't know what to do....

ArJoe SG

Where did it happen? What is happening at that time(eg.meeting etc)

ArJoe SG

You might be thinking too much... maybe she did not think much about it... Just apologise and everything should be fine..

ArJoe SG

How about farting in front of some people unintentionally, and then they stare at you.. how would you handle such a situation?

ArJoe SG

Vomiting in front of people because you could not control it… I have once experienced who have done that.. and he was like at a loss Very Happy

ArJoe SG

Underperforming in a competition due to headaches when you are expected to win.. and you got blamed and scolded by teammates…. I was stuck with that situation before and I did not know how to react

Capriceraven SG

Hahah the vomiting one is really difficult. Hopefully passers-by will help out.

ArJoe SG

Hahah the vomiting one is really difficult. Hopefully passers-by will help out.

so smelly...who want help out sia

Capriceraven SG

so smelly...who want help out sia

Heard there's once a nurse in training helped this guy in the train. But I guess at least offer some tissue papers?

Genie99b SG

You met your ex-lover while hanging out with your current girlfriend

Wah.... this one takes the trophy.

ArJoe SG

Nurse is professionally trained what.. they are already used to handling such things.. but I guess most people run away alrdy