Originally posted by choco B:
I think the onus here is how one behaves in a relationship he/she
cares about. Some people (I for one) are open when it comes to
things that aren't too serious. Then everything comes out - the
good, the bad, the ugly. It's just gossip.
But when it's about people you care about, you keep the
intimate details more private. Personally, it's because
the sex, and the relationship, is special. Opening it up
kinda loses its preciousness. Also, it's out of respect
for the man. I wouldn't invade his privacy. I find it's rather
unfair to him, if everyone knows a lot about him, but he knows
lesser about other people.
yup, i'd have to agree with you totally 
