babe, u'll be fine alrite? be strong *hugs*
i'm healing too, been half a year liao.
i keep myself occupied wth work, n plenty of dates.
it'll take time, but u'll heal. juz tie urself through this
period.
n i realise tat there r so many nicer ones out there, juz waiting
for me to choose. u can do the same too. the next one will be a
better one, k?
u got me anyway 
*hugs* 