There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he
didn't know which one he loved more.
Someone taught him, "Ask yourself this question and answer it
honestly: When you are happy, which gal would you want to share
your happiness with?" The one you think of is someone you
love.
Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly: When you are
sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?" The one you
think of is also someone you love.
If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's
the most perfect. But if you don't think of the same gal, I would
advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness
with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many
people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not
necessary your lover. If you live your life happily, you can also
enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people
willing to share your burden with you.
If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that
person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to
you. But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you
when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this
lover is too unstable, she doesn't treat you as someone she can
spend the rest of her life with.
Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share
her happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by
her side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold
a very important position in her heart.
If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?
