The story of an Asian girl on growing up as a Liverpool
supporter in Asia and why Anfield is ever so special and different
to her.
'But Asian girls don't watch football', screamed my mortified
mother.
Do you have any idea what an ungodly hour it is, young
lady!'
I took a sideway glance at the wall clock. It read 3:45am. Why yes,
it was inexplicable to my mother why her teenage daughter would
dutifully crawl out of bed and drop herself in dreaded darkness by
the tele all for a football club that has aptly taught her to hold
her head up high and not be afraid of the dark.
The year was 1999. Liverpool lost in a tragic fashion by two cruel
goals minutes from stoppage time after taking a lead for close to
90 minutes in the 4th round FA Cup tie against the arch nemesis. My
heart was too heavy to return to bed then but one is seldom sorry
for 'sacrificing' bedtime hours for the Reds.
I have a confession. As embarrassing (and melodramatic) as this
goes: I teared that ghastly morning for feeling the injustice of a
team that was as near as on the other side of my TV screen was and
as far as being on the other side of the world, which had this
defeat so vividly embedded in my memory.
Derisive text messages from [insert adjective of your choice]
United fans started invading my phone and the thought of being
scoffed at in school just hours later made skipping school an
appealing option, but to nurse a Liverpool heartbreak would never
make a valid excuse to get a day off from school.
If you don't already know, football fans in Asia are well-versed in
the art of "nocturnalism", that is to be religiously sleep-deprived
over one's football team. When the final whistle snoozes, high
school kids in Asia pack their bags then head off to school with
heavy eye bags and it becomes part of growing up.
It was hard growing up as a Liverpool supporter in the 1990s.
Before the internet was readily available, club news were few and
far in between. Yet as many Liverpool supporters at this end of the
world will say, however hard it was growing up as a Liverpool
supporter, I will not have had it any other way.
Though I was completely charmed by Liverpool the first time I saw
them on tele in 1995, I spent the next half a decade asking my
tele, 'Do you always have to be this painful to watch?' (Don't you
ask too?) It is still as painful some days today, but growing up
with the club means you grow stronger together too.
The 1990s will be etched in our memories as the decade of defensive
woes from Calamity James to Carras affair with own goals. The one
thing I've learnt about being a Liverpool supporter even in the Far
East is this: Liverpudlians stick through with their team from
season to season no matter where or what.
I know of rival clubs' fans in Asia who habitually club-hop, but
there was (and still is) something about Liverpool that draws their
fans in and keeps them there, irrationally so. Perhaps history
taught us to, but we're also accustomed to the Reds' ability to
repay our faiths by extreme means and honestly, I love it.
The adrenaline bursting through the top of your head to the untamed
butterflies in your stomach that needs to be caged, every comeback
story adds a new dimension of belief to your sustained support of
the club. Secretly, everyone loves a comeback match and no club
does it better than Liverpool.
After a disappointing decade in the 1990s, the lads spun a classic
comeback tale at least twice to clinch the unique treble in 2001
and by the time Istanbul happened, I was eternally ecstatic but not
less familiar to such moments of midnight magic. Need I still
mention the FA Cup final in 2006? Enough said.
The year of Istanbul was my tenth year anniversary as a larky
supporter of the club. By Liverpool, I've been overcome by a
conviction of what is worth it, is worth the wait. The 2005 Cup
didn't do an Asian tour as the 2001 UEFA Cup did, so a trip to
Anfield quickly had become a non-negotiable ordeal.
It was initially rumoured in Asia that Stanley Park would be ready
by the end of 2008. Horrified by the prospects of
never-been-Anfield-bound, I took a gap year in 2007 to spend a year
in England. It is hard to articulate why, but Asians have often
shared of having an
emotional seizure at Anfield. And I did so, too.
It wasn't hard getting there, a local bus ride of about twenty
minutes from the city center and I was dropped at the gateway of my
midnight magical moments, which were rushing into my head as I
stood at the heel of the Victorian gates - for a split moment - to
take it all in.
With both arms swung wide in a V-sign, a fellow Asian visitor whom
I didn't know erupted into delirious roars the moment he got off
the bus, 'I'm here, I'm here'! That is what I was talking about. As
bizarre as it sounds, many Asian fans (men especially) get
completely blown away just by the sight of Anfield.
I was on my own. I never knew Anfield was this majestic and
beautiful to say the least. From the humble dressing room to the
historical KOP end, the stadium tour lived up to its billing and it
would take a lifetime to forget how wickedly entertaining our
Scouser guide was.
One would have thought seeing The Cup will be the highlight of the
trip, after all it embodies the relentless spirit of the club's
anthem and reminds you why supporting this club is one of the best
thing in your life, but no - I was in for a bigger treat at Anfield
and no - it wasn't meeting one of the lads.
As I was leaving the stadium, frantically snapping up last minute
pictures from the bus stand across the stadium, my defining moment
as a Liverpool supporter came. A Scouser in his thirties sped
towards me from the other side of the road and asked, 'Would you
like a photo with the stadium? Let me help you!'
That was a moment that redefined my understanding of what You Will
Never Walk Alone means. Pleasantly stumped and a lack of a better
word, I shyly ran a flowing tap of 'thanks'. To which his reply
would warm me for a decade of winters, 'Nah worries! Liverpool fans
do anything for each other'.
This is why Anfield is so different and will always be so.
The red sea doesn't divide at Anfield. The supporters at the stands
don't only stick with the lads on the field but they stick by each
other in every sense of You Will Never Walk Alone. I may never see
you again but if you are the Scouser I met at Anfield last May, on
this public space, you deserve a heartfelt 'ta'!
