I was a Civil Engineering draftman back in the past in 1996,
some how due to another relationship I quitted my job and not been
working for a year. ( another story, will tell you guys next
time.)
I knew a gal which is 7 years younger than me and our relationship
last for 3 years. She is from a rich family educated studying her
A level. Her family was not happy with me because I am skinny,
O level and most important not from family that match their
status. Specially her mum always bring her to meet all the rich man
and son trying to match make them.
She is after me and she is willing to give herself against her
family to be with me, I decided to turn over a leaf and starts all
over again in IT as a sales, earning a salary of $500. I stay back
every evening help the technical engineer to setup new PC, trouble
shoot to learn the technical stuffs with not extra money. During
that time she is having her school holiday working part time in a
bank earning $1500 per month, she dont need the money and she use
her money to support me.
After few month of training, and she has gone back to school our
life change. I manage to get in a bigger company as a System
Engineer and Network Engineer within 6 months and She entered NUS.
My Job has taken my time more and more and that mean less and less
time for her.
She has more and more functions and parties, and always come back
with lots of stories. Who and who is after her, doctors,
lawyer
.
Ended up she left me with a O level guy which own Fishing tackle
shop in Changi Village given by the guys father.
Now and then I still see the guy smiling to me when I walk pass his
shop, because before I knew they were together my gf actually
introduce him as her sworn brother and brought me to his shop to
buy fishing rod which I am still using it now.
Moral of the above story : if your career is not stable dont step
in relationship, its very fragile. Its a waste of time, although
she loves me and support me but she gave me up because she cant
wait to see my success.
Whats the point of stepping into relationship which is only left
you with sorrow and pain?
How many of the similar relationship really ended happily ever
after
.?
