xking SG U love someone....she expect U to be there when she need U all the time. BuT U expect same thing sometimes jus sometimes she say U expect too much...wat shit?? Then she can ignore U....but U cant ignore her. She has to win...she's always right.....she can get angry and throw temper U cannot??? Is there fairness in love??? Not fair...
Ah Ma SG mayb cos u always give in tats y she lidat..sometimes lao hu bu fa wei ta ni shi bing mao..... canot always give in to girls 1...
Patty SG Originally posted by xking: U love someone....she expect U to be there when she need U [b]all the time. BuT U expect same thing sometimes jus sometimes she say U expect too much...wat shit?? Then she can ignore U....but U cant ignore her. She has to win...she's always right.....she can get angry and throw temper U cannot??? Is there fairness in love??? Not fair... [/b]some girls are like that... Guys and girls just never understand each other. mens are from mars, woman from venus.
xking SG Probably U R rite here.... I always give in.... i dun wanna ji jiao so much.....esp she got family problems.... But she abit guo fen lately le.. Abit taboleh tahan liao....
M©+square SG I'm not sure if you should categorise it in Love. Love has never intended that way. Everything done in Love IS Fair. Relationships and difference between man and women creates conflict. Fair? Anything not done in mutual agreement is unfair.
Patty SG when she cool down, explain your feeling to her... i think this works on me.... usually will feel very guilty after fa pi qi....
M©+square SG I'm not sure if you should categorise it in Love. Love has never intended that way. Everything done in Love IS Fair. Relationships and difference between man and women creates conflict. Fair? Anything not done in mutual agreement is unfair.
Ah Ma SG mayb she like u bcos u always give in her n hong her lor...and rely on u too much...tout u always will give in to her 1...girls r lidat 1...cos too spoilt liaoz...mayb u tell her wat u tink nw...see if she gt any changes or nt...if nt, then u shld aso give her some colors to see arbo she climb over ur head
M©+square SG If it becomes behavioural and unintentionally invoked, it's harder to feel guilty cos the person might think that she right by reacting tat way. I've learnt my lesson before. If it's only situations which brought her to such reaction. Then it'll be better to solve and easier to understand. Still situations could make a person become behaviorally explosive or self centered. ....usually people with low EQs have these effects.
xking SG Then after few days i bo hew her.....she come say sorry and all dat..... I mean it's not the point about saying sorry. It's like 4gif and 4get, 4gif N 4get... Then happens again. It's like i just tired of it...in a way. Everytime bad mood take me as chu qi tong. It's very "xiong" to me......will get "internal bleeding". If not becoz of all her problems i would've burst out wif her.... Phew....everytime i try to remain calm. Cut the heaty conversation b4 it get out of hand....but each time after putting down the phone i curse and swear. #$%$^%&^&
Ah Ma SG actualy aso depends on the girl character..whether is stubborn girl, soft hearted girl or wat …kind..
M©+square SG Eh buddy, very simple lah. If things don't work out. Don't waste time and waste internal blood liao. I kanna Xiong Xiong before. Don't want to see my fellow forumite Qi Kong Liu Que. It's only when things really couldn't work out.
foga SG have a good talk with her bah. i understand how u feel xking. but before things get out off hand, talk to her. not agrresively but perhaps over dinner or a drink? dun end up like me. only regrets and only learn to treasure after love's gone. good luck and god bless. amen.
Ah Ma SG aiya then if lidat keep repeating then is couple mah…tink most couple is lidat 1…forgive n forget…lolx…if realy bei tahan, try stay away frm each other for sometime see hw lor
F.O.S SG Xking I have some suggestion and thoughts to share with you , but not here someone see it and it won't work on her anymore just go with it first and we should have chance private chat one day
