say only la, dun u wan ur own kids..
My aunt is a div too but she re-married. When she did she had three
kids oldest is 14 youngster is 7.
The man she married was younger then her & it was his first
marriage.
But after abt a few years, he wanted to have his own kids badly.
Reasons? He was the only child, working hard to feed three kids
that are not his.. But by that time my aunt is abt 36, so she
refuse.
hai.. till now they still quarrel over it..