The actual story is bit of long but I will try to summarize.
This is about my sister’s bf:
He used to date a married woman (a Malaysian who became a
Singaporean PR because she married a local Singaporean-Malay). She
promised the bf to divorce her husband but until almost 4 years
down the road still no divorce happened. The husband never knew
about this incident, no idea at all even until now.
Inside their so called 3 years over 3rd party relationship, the
married woman has been lending money to the guy bit by bit until it
reached 5K. They continuously see for almost 4 years without asking
for repayment for the gradual expenditure / loan.
The bf became tired of the married woman and wanted to move on
with his life when he met my sister. The married woman became very
angry and kept asking, demanding for the payment of the money
gradually lent to him during their relationship. But the bf do not
have the money to pay because he thought it was all gifts as a sign
of help from the married woman. The married woman threaten to file
a police report although she doesn’t have a proof of such loans.
She also threaten to sue the bf.
Questions are:
a) Can she really make a Police Report even though she doesn’t
have any proof?
b) Can the bf counter claim for harassment?
c) Can the bf go to any Sharia court and tell them the married
woman was cheating with the husband?
d) Will the PR Status be affected?
e) Can the bf not pay the married woman?
f) Is there any laws in Singapore that covers this kind of
situation?
g) Any more advices? The married woman is really nasty and she is
too aggressive even to the point of texting my sister to stop
seeing her bf.
